Matchmaking for unapologetically
honest people.

Stop swiping.

1. Create a profile.
2. Tell us what you want.
3. We'll introduce you.

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Who we are

We're a global matchmaking service run by real humans who use AI to eliminate illogical inefficiencies in dating and mating.

Founded by efficiency-obsessed engineers.

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Sal Shah

Chief Software Architect

We designed ExtremeHonesty to be exactly what we needed when we were single engineers in Silicon Valley. The male-female ratio is terrible in tech hubs, and we just didn't have time to swipe. Efficiency is sacred to us. So is honesty.

This isn't just about matchmaking. It's about saving high-functioning people countless hours by applying first principles thinking to one of life's biggest time sinks.

How it works

01

Intake

Tell us exactly what you're looking for.

02

Matching

AI-powered search. Human-verified compatibility.

03

Virtual Introductions

Meet over video without having to share contact info.

04

Ongoing Support

Feedback, coaching, iteration until it works.

The logic

Dating apps profit from engagement. We profit from resolution.

We succeed when you delete them.

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